My Sister Judy


My Sister Judy.It is April 26,1997.We buried my sister Judy today.She died suddenly Tuesday Aril 22,1997 at 8:46 p.m.She was hit by a car while crossing the street.She was 38 year's old.I know this is new to me,but I don't know how I am suppose to feel.Right now I am so numb.She was my big sister.She took care of me.I am really going to miss her.

If someone die's instantly,do they feel any pain.I hope she did not hurt.I pray she didn't see the car.I don't understand,the man was only going 35 mph.How could she be dead?She had already crossed five lane's and was in the last one.This really hurt's me.She left behind two children ages 16 & 13.I don't know what I am suppose to do now.

When we were young my mother worked very hard and my so called father was never home.Judy was my mom and sister.I know it has not hit me yet and I am afraid when it does I will not be able to handle it.Right now I am lost and have no feeling's.I can't even cry.What is wrong with me?I wish I had told her I loved her.We were close but never said the word's.I hope she know's I loved her.


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