I loss my mother just four weeks ago to cancer. She was my best friend and confidant we were always together. I loss my father nine years ago, but my grief was bearable, because I had my mother to lean on, now that she is gone I am not coping too well neither is my daughter who loves her grandmother so much. I find it hard to even console her because of my grief, but I try to be strong for her. The saddest part of this is that my daughter hoped that her grandmother would be alive to attend her graduation, but she died just days before. I am in my late forties and married to a wonderful man but it is still hard to accept death in any form.