Cats



Comes the Dawn

After awhile you learn the subtle differences,
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
WIth the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And learn to build all your roads
On today because tomorrow's ground
Is too uncertain for plans, and futures have
A way of falling down in mid-flight.
After awhile you learn that even sunshine
Burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own and decorate
Your own soul, instead of waiting
For someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really are strong
And you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn....
With every goodbye you learn.

Cathy Quigley



You can send email to Cathy at: cquigzzz@aol.com
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anniversary date 09-25-98
date of post 10-10-98

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