Grieving the Sudden Death of My Father and Remembering My Mo

Pam Wirt

I am still trying to get past my fathers sudden death. The doctors thought he was having heart problems and that what was causing all of his stomach pain. It turned out he had stomach cancer. He called me the morning of his death to tell me of his diagnosis. I am so glad I got to talk to him that last day. He was a good man and after his death it made me want to be more like him. My mother died 11 years ago. I can't remember the last time I talked to her before she died. I know I have missed so much because my mother died when I was so young. My Father remarried about a year before he died. I love my stepmother but it is hard to see her because it reminds me of my father. I can not seem to move on from his death and accept it. How do you move on when you have lost both parents and you are only 32. Sometimes I feel so depressed and I just want to hide from life. I know that there are a lot of people like me out there. How did you move on after both of your parents death?

Pam Wirt



You can send email to Pam Wirt at Pebbles@wilkshire.net

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Anniversary date - 4-15-00 / 10-8-
Date of post - 2-15-01

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